comedy works
comedy works

I was sitting in my virtual zoom speaking class when I shared the story of my most recent miracle.

It started when I stumbled across a Facecrack post from comedian Janae Burris. She was offering a class for the Comedy Curious. Something in me lit up. What a perfect way to honor this new chapter—my youngest heading off into the world as an adult, and me reclaiming parts of myself that have been quietly waiting their turn.

Before committing, I wanted to feel her energy in person. So, I showed up at Comedy Works in Denver for a New Talent Night, imagining a cozy group swapping stories and seeing if they got laughs.

I’ve never been to a comedy club before—or at least, not that I can remember. I arrived early, around 6:00 PM for a 7:30 show, and put my name on the list with a big, fat N next to it. N for newbie. That’s when Chris the bartender kindly let me in on how it all works. Two minutes. That’s all you get. If you get picked off the standby list.

The groggy man at the ticket counter told me I wouldn’t get picked—I didn’t sign up online, and it was my first time. The comedians in the lobby, clearly local legends, echoed the same sentiment: “No way you’re getting a set tonight.” And I thought—What’s a set, anyway?

Still, I put my name down. I had a couple stories I thought were funny (or at least funny-adjacent). Somehow, by the grace of God or comedy angels, I got picked. I was going on stage.

I knew nothing about punchlines, timing, or delivery. I just wanted to talk to Janae Burris about her class. And now here I was—on stage—wondering if people would laugh at me or with me or anything in between.

Right before I walked on, I heard my therapist’s voice in my head:
“Helene, stop caring what people think. Don’t take it personally. Some people will love you, some people won’t. And it can change week to week.”

OK, guru. Got it.

The lights were bright. I stepped up and mumbled something about therapists who tell you don’t care what others think and speaking coaches who say never turn down stagetime. Just as I was about to launch into a story about not landing the job I’d always wanted—the mic dropped. Time was up.

Already?

But here’s what matters: I showed up. And when you show up for life—really show up—miracles do happen.

I may not walk on water, but I can hold a mic and speak the whispers of my heart.

Are you ready for miracles? Let’s talk.

Be Brilliant! Be You!

Helene Rose

Helene Rose guides you to your brilliance, into your heart, and into the Heart of All That Is. Join the Be Brilliant Network community to practice shining from within. Listen to the podcast for your Daily Energy Alignment. Schedule your Brilliance Coaching session.

know your worth and get what you want

Reflecting on life experience, I realize that I usually get what I want. I’ve also noticed that when I get what I want it’s usually immediately after saying no to something else. There are just a few examples.

I had accepted a long term sub teaching position. They added more and more responsibility to my plate and no support for accomplishing the tasks at hand. I called the principal after the first day and told him that I had changed my mind. I wasn’t going to fulfill the position. That same day, I applied for another position, interviewed the next day, accepted the job and stayed there for 4 years! If I hadn’t said no to the first position, I would not have gotten the job I really wanted!

Another time, I was dating a man and was torn about staying together. I tuned inward and decided that we were not quite a match. So I broke up with him. Within 5 minutes (literally!), I met another man who asked me out on a date. That was confirmation for me!

The universe is telling me: when you honor yourself, you get what you want. When you claim your worth, you get what you want. Don’t settle, and you will get what you want.

This is why I haven’t stayed in a job or in a relationship if it’s not working out. I’ve tried to make them all work. I could have stayed in most of my previous relationships. I could have settled, but I’m on a mission to transform, heal, expand, and know my divinity.

What about the times I don’t get what I want? I really wanted to be a school leader. Interview after interview, I was rejected. After some time, I realized that it’s not in the flow for me. It’s not for my highest good right now. It’s not falling into my lap. I’ve expended enough energy at this. Why am I not getting the job that I want? Self-reflect, self-reflect, self-reflect.

My lifestyle goals are in conflict with the position. After all, school leaders work around the clock. Nights, weekends. They attend every school event and have almost no time for anything else. Do I really want that? In addition, I know the universe is always looking out for me and has my back. Something better is coming.

What are you ready to say no to? Tell me about it in a discovery call. It’s your time to shine!

Keep shining,

Helene Rose

Helene Rose guides you to your brilliance, into your heart, and into the Heart of All That Is. Join the Be Brilliant Network community to practice shining from within. Listen to the podcast for your Daily Energy Alignment.